sexaholicrustoday:

daddysdoli:

My first few months into the lifestyle I thought of the same thing. I was astounded and found it incredibly beautiful to know a certain woman. She was ridiculously intelligent, and yet one of the most devoted submissives I’ve ever met. I found it so profoundly beautiful that these two things could exist in the same woman. I still find it to be one of the most beautiful things in the lifestyle. 

butterflyslut:

A Submissive’s Strength …

Anyone that might still harbour the notion that a submissive woman is weak should think on this …

In the world of men it is the dominant male … the alpha male … that is the most powerful and overwhelming … the most intimidating … they radiate self assurance like the air they breathe … born leaders …

A submissive woman not only has the courage to approach such a man … but also the strength to let her guard down completely … knowing that the beast that lives in every man lives even more strongly in this kind and will refuse to hide … knowing that he will make her face torment … fear … wild emotions … uncontrolled passion … knowing that she will not be able to hide either … and that he will expect unflinching honesty …

In submitting to such a man a submissive woman effectively stands her ground … says I have the courage to deal with whatever comes … I want to travel to the darkest places … face my deepest fears … and not only will I do this but I will let him drive the car …

She has the courage to trust …

A weak woman could never do this … only the strongest …

Submission is therefore a paradox and a type of wisdom … a way of learning that in forsaking power you actually find it … to gain true power you need only give it up …

ah how I miss my darling dead girl

(Source: thebadboys)